How to satisfy your man in bed!

To all the women reading, get this: you are getting increasingly powerful by the day. Sisters of all generations in all parts of the world have been fighting for your liberation. In the workplace, you have earned your right to recognition and credit. Your existence is no longer decimated to that of a domestic housekeeper; running after your children and cleaning up their spit is no longer what you do all day.

Take a page from Madonna, the female sex icon of our time. Constantly pushing the envelope on the idealism of female wholesomeness, she has defied all traditional stereotypes. She released a Sex book in her prime, and she is now shacking up with someone she can be a mother to. Or Cleopatra in ancient times; her unparalleled beauty made her the luscious desire of many men. These women dare to play up their sex appeal because they are so mightily confident of themselves and well, they have SWAGGER!

So women, take the lead. Do not be a sexually deficient prude. Follow your instincts. Let go of your inner inhibitions. Forget any reservations about being called a slut. The circumstances have changed: you satisfy a man because you CAN, not because you need to.

Ready to blow your man’s mind? Follow these tips and we can assure you, your men will be begging for you to STOP!

1) Prostate massage

While this is unconventional to all the heterosexual males, it is all the craze and glory for the gay men. There is a good reason for it. Think of the prostate as the clitoris equivalent. Stimulation of the prostate can be pleasing and can lead to ejaculation of seminal fluid. Many heterosexual men shy away from this because they see it as a form of emasculation and an act of homoeroticism. Talk your man into it; tell him he would not regret letting your fingers in.

Wet your fingers and gently insert them into his toosh. Treat his hole as you would treat your vagina. Massage his anus in a slow, circular motion. Slowly thrust your fingers in and out. Don’t be surprised if he begins to gravitate and hump your fingers.

2) Get on top

One of the faux pas a woman can make is to assume the passive role throughout the entire intercourse session. Men congregate in their little beer groups and makes gibes about the girl who “just lies there”. Don’t let men do all the work! Show your interest in your man; ride on his stick to your orgasm! When you’re on top, you can optimize your sexual pleasure because you are in control.

Do not worry about men and their “ego”. Nothing turns them on more than a girl who just wants to get off.

3) You huff and you puff!

There is another lesson to learn from the story of three little pigs. Blow your guts out. Samantha Jones, the sexually promiscuous one in the Sex and the City gang once quipped, “If we could perpetually do blowjobs to every guy on earth, we would own the world.” Indeed. Men are a sucker for blowjobs; pun not intended. It is all the pleasure with none of the work. They also love the fact that they do not need to put on a condom. Savour and indulge in the sweet taste of his dick!

4) Nipples play

Often touted as white elephants, men have no use for their nipples. Unlike you, they do not produce milk. But few men have ventured into the realm of their sensitive nipples; again, we have the common warped thinking that nipple play is only for women to thank. It is up to you to change their beliefs. It’s time to give your man’s nipples its due attention. Be careful not to play with it too vigorously; you don’t want to chaff them.

Always remember the rule of friction in sex; lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. In this case, your saliva will suffice, and it’s probably kinkier to engage your wet fingers (or use your tongue to caress his nipples). As he begins to thrust you, stimulate his erected nipples, or even rub them against your own.

Trust us, he won’t last a minute longer than James Brown’s Sex Machine.

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