Put some Swag in your Shag!!! - Sex Essentials

Men all around the world echo the term with a sense of intimidation. Some chooses to eschew the topic entirely, because they have never known how to please a woman that way. Indeed, female orgasms are elusive and aren’t as straight-forward as the male’s. You cannot be sure until and unless your partner ejaculates; yes, females ejaculate - or squirt - too when in their body is in a heightened state of arousal.

Admit it. Thanks to magnanimousness on your girlfriends’ part; faking orgasms to boast your ego, you do not really know if you are doing the right thing. You can’t consult your Casanova of a buddy, who has been making his rounds as a Sex God because pride gets in your way. All of the girls are begging to “If you see-k him” while you wallow in self pity. Don’t fret we will help you put some swag in your shag.

The truth of the matter is that a man of swagger knows how to arouse his woman. We know it is tough work; juggling between developing confidence, speaking well, being well mannered and now, performing exceptionally well in the sack. But hey, if you want the ladies to keep you, you have got to up your game and swagger. And that means putting effort in your bedroom skills!

Luckily for you, all the tips that you have previously picked up with Swagger Essentials will come in handy. Chivalry, confidence and swagger. To a woman, sex starts way before the lights dim. It begins right at the moment you pick her up at her house. A romantic night of dinner drives her libido to full gear. Be attentive to her needs and listen to what she says. Shower her with compliments and flirt with her gently.

Bite her ear when you two get in the car. Give her a hickey or two. Tell her how much you desire her and we guarantee she’ll be more than ready at night. Stimulate her mind and stroke her sensuality & ego. Let her know she’s beautiful.

Soon, you two lovebirds will arrive at the bedroom. The clothes come flying off. Now, remember, it is not the measure of your girth that matters; it’s what you do with it!

1) Foreplay

Men are dogs. When you think of sex, you immediately want to pull down your pants, stick it in and be done with it. This could work if you were pleasuring yourself with a flesh light or a sex toy. A prostitute would probably commend you for your skills, or lack of, only because you’re paying her for it. It wouldn’t with a dignified lady. Think of foreplay as basic courtesy and manners. When approaching a woman for the first time, you don’t immediately stick your tongue down her throat, do you?

Skipping the foreplay is a faux pas that many men make. Cuddling, kissing or even biting her nipples are little gestures that make her warm up to you. Even a nymphomaniac has her own set of inhibitions. Chances are, when your lady is shy, she cannot get into a state of arousal. Her mind is bombarded with thoughts such as, “how much longer?” “This is torture”. An orgasm isn’t going to look her way when she wants to scurry to the finishing line.

Slowly explore her body parts with your mouth; kissing her clitoris (if that is your thing--- we know it’s hers!) with your tongue or licking her pubic area awaken her senses, letting her know that you love every inch of her body.

2) Fingers

It is no secret that women turn to the use of their fingers when it comes to sexual pleasure. What men lack in, women make it up with their fingers. Take this as a tip. Employ your fingers to good use. God gave us two ears and a mouth because He wanted us to listen more. Using the same logic, it is likely that He gave us 10 fingers and 1 penis because we are meant to excite our women with our fingers!

There are many ways to increase intimacy with your fingers. Gently caress her hair. Naughtily rub her erected nipples with your fingers. Prepare her for sexual penetration by sliding your fingers into her genital. React to the rhythm of her body. One … two … three fingers.

3) Communication

Communication is instrumental in helping her attain that orgasm. Nothing kills passionate sex like silence. A little soft moaning doesn’t take away your manliness; in fact, it helps her get over her inhibitions. Of course, when you are done growling like a dog, it is time to focus your attention on her. In between your heavy panting, tell her how good it feels to be locked in this position with her. Compliment her beautiful body and her natural scent.

Take it up a notch and ask her what she would like to do. If she wants you to kiss her neck, do so. Her wish is your command. Putting her needs before yours lets her know you’re working hard to please her.

Talk confidently dirty to her, and never, ever ask cliché questions like “whose pussy is this?” or ” who’s your daddy?”…..ok maybe” who you daddy ?”. Bottom line, don’t be corny.

4) Take it out, wait and put it back in

In order to prolong the session, your little brother needs to catch a break. There are many things you can do to sustain her interest interim. Give her a well deserved blowjob or finger her. Ask her the positions she would like to try and prep her up for her new position. When your little brother has rested enough, it’s time to go back to work.

Be a man, be confident, take control, unless she wants to handle the stick for a while, and then break her ass off (figuratively). Once you know what she likes, deliver it in a way that she has never gotten it before. If you talk big, back that shit up.

5) Keep your eyes open

Unless of course, you’re trying to imagine it is the porn star of your dreams you’re shacking up with, then, by all means, close your eyes. If not, make eye contact with her. Lock your eyes in with hers. Examine her body; they indicate whether she is in a state of arousal; there’s no way you can fake erected nipples, unless you have set the thermostat to below 10 degrees.

Besides, making love with your eyes closed – nothing screams more pubescent than that!

6) Take it slow, then vrrrooom!

Amateurs have a tendency of jamming their penis straight into the vagina. They pound away like a sledgehammer, thinking the faster they hit, the higher the chance of her orgasm. Wrong. It is an utter mistake. Not only is it uncomfortable, it is painful. All that jabbing makes a sore vagina and you can be sure she will make all sort of excuses the next time.

Instead, teasingly slid your penis against her privates before making your entrance. When thrusting, do it a circular motion; that will please her to no end. Remember the hare and the tortoise story; there is no rush at all. Chances are, if you pound away too early, you are only digging your own grave with a premature ejaculation.

Savor this romantic moment and do not be quick to end it. When you are about to reach the point of no return, be sure to take flight and give it all your might. Start slow and end violently. Have earth shattering sex towards the end. Break your bed! Moan as loud as you wish!

There’s nothing more anticlimactic than a quiet orgasm affair.

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